Phone scams · 4 min read

"Wrong number" texts: how the scam starts

Short answer

"Hi, is this Jessica? Are we still on for dinner?" A misdirected text that turns into a friendly chat is a common opening for long romance and crypto investment scams. The FTC says it is not rude to ignore texts from strangers. Do not reply.

How it unfolds

The FTC describes "wrong number" texts as an out-of-the-blue message that looks innocent, followed by a friendship (often romantic) and, eventually, an introduction to a bogus investment platform (FTC Data Spotlight, Apr 2025). Even a polite "sorry, wrong number" confirms your number is active (FTC, May 2024).

Read how the later stage works in crypto romance scams.

Look up the number that contacted you

Carrier, line type and location are free. Private: nobody is notified.

Signs

  • A stranger who keeps chatting after the "mistake".
  • Attractive profile photos and a wealthy lifestyle.
  • A push to move to WhatsApp or Telegram.
  • Talk of crypto, gold or forex trading, or a "mentor".

What to do

  1. Do not reply. Block and delete.
  2. Forward scam texts to 7726 (SPAM) so your carrier can block the sender, then delete them. Report the scam at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.
  3. If you have already invested, stop sending money and report to IC3.gov and ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

Questions

Is it rude not to reply to a wrong number?

No. The FTC says ignoring "hi, how are you?" texts from strangers is the safe choice.

Can I look up who texted me?

Yes. A reverse phone lookup shows the line type and carrier for free; these scams often use app (VoIP) numbers.

Who is behind that number?

Search a name, phone number or email to see public profiles and records.

Sources

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Published 2026-10-28 by the TrueSearch Safety Team. General information, not legal advice. In an emergency call 911.

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