Scams · 6 min read

Crypto romance scams: how "pig butchering" works

Short answer

In a crypto romance scam, a match becomes a friend or partner, then "teaches" you to invest on a trading site or app that they control. The balance looks like it grows, but the money is gone the moment you send it. Withdrawal "taxes" or "fees" are the final stage.

How the scam unfolds

  1. Contact: a match, or a "wrong number" text that turns friendly.
  2. Trust: weeks of daily chat. Little or no talk of money at first.
  3. The lifestyle: photos of travel, cars and trading screens. An uncle or mentor who is "an expert".
  4. The tip: they show you a platform and suggest a small investment.
  5. Fake gains: the site shows big profits. A small withdrawal may even work, to build trust.
  6. The squeeze: you are encouraged to invest more, borrow, or use retirement savings.
  7. The trap: when you try to withdraw, you are told to pay taxes, fees or a "verification deposit" first. That money is lost too.
Check who is coaching you

Private search. They are never notified.

Warning signs

  • Someone you met online brings up investing or crypto at all.
  • The platform is a website or app they sent you a link to, not one you found yourself.
  • Customer support only works through chat or Telegram.
  • You must pay to withdraw your own money.
  • "Recovery services" contact you later offering to get the money back for a fee. That is a second scam.

The FTC is clear: only scammers demand payment in cryptocurrency, and anyone who promises guaranteed returns is lying (FTC).

If you already invested

  1. Stop sending money, including any "fee" to withdraw.
  2. Save the platform URL, wallet addresses, transaction IDs and chats.
  3. Report to IC3.gov and ReportFraud.ftc.gov. Include wallet addresses and transaction IDs.
  4. Contact the exchange you used to buy the crypto and report the destination wallet.
  5. Ignore anyone offering to recover funds for an upfront fee.

Questions

What is pig butchering?

A long-con scam where the victim is "fattened up" with trust and fake investment gains before being drained of as much money as possible. It usually involves crypto and a fake trading platform.

Can I get my crypto back?

Recovery is rare, but report quickly to IC3 and the exchange; law enforcement has frozen and seized funds in some cases. Never pay a "recovery service" upfront.

Know who you are talking to

Search a name or phone number to see public profiles and photos before you meet.

Sources

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Published 2026-10-28 by the TrueSearch Safety Team. This guide is general information, not legal advice. In an emergency call 911.

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