Where to look
- Name + school + year in Google and Facebook.
- Name changes: try maiden and married names, and nicknames.
- Alumni groups: Facebook class groups, the school's alumni association, LinkedIn's alumni tool (school page > Alumni).
- Mutual friends: whoever you are still in touch with from that time.
- People search: TrueSearch compiles public profiles and photos tied to a name; add the city where they grew up.
Private search. Nobody is notified.
Reaching out
Keep the first message short and low-pressure: who you are, how you know them, and an easy way to reply if they want to. Do not show up at their home or workplace unannounced.